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Monday, May 18, 2009

Twenty Years of Married Bliss . . . or something like that - lol

Trent and I were married TWENTY years ago

May 20, 1989



He wouldn't marry me until he got his 1967 Cuda restored so we could drive it in our wedding. I wanted a limo - he wanted to drive his Cuda. I didn't understand it then, but I do now. He had that car since he was 13 and it was a huge part of his life - it was important to him to share it with me on our wedding day. Took me about 12 years to finally "get" him - he's still working on trying to figure me out :0)




I desperately wanted an outdoor wedding (actually, I wanted it on a beach, but that's another story) - we planned it to be at his Mom and Dad's house on the river, which is the house we live in now. In anticipation of the big day, Trent's Dad completely dug up the yard and replanted grass seed (that's just the way he was - that's where Trent gets it from), but a huge storm came and washed all the seed into the river, so we had to go to plan B. We decided to have it at Coalbush United Methodist Church and that was a good thing, because it rained and rained on our wedding day. This shot is after our reception already started, there was a beautiful sunset - we ran outside and got some pretty outdoor shots and that made me happy!


This is my baby nephew Shaun (who is 22 now and is Trent's partner at the shop) and our God daughter, Holli Houghton. They were adorable! Right after this shot Shaun decided Holli must taste as good as she looked - he lifted her arm right up and took a big bit out of it - not cuz he was being mean or anything, that's just what he liked to do when he was two!




This is one of my favorite pictures of the entire wedding day - Me and my Daddy during the Father Daughter dance.




Here we are on our honeymoon in Cancun. Little did we know that trip would become way more than just a romantic get away. We were supposed to go to Jamaica, but about 1 month before the wedding the airline went bankrupt and we lost our reservations.


At the last minute we decided to go to Cancun and we fell in LOVE with the people of the Yucatan. We dreamed of living in a paradise like that someday and now, 20 years later, that seed that was planted is growing into something and this winter we will be exploring the possibility of doing missions/humanitarian work in the Riviera Maya. I don't think it was an accident that we ended up there . . . I believe God had something bigger in mind for us!


I can't wait to see what the next 20 years brings!!!

Friday, May 15, 2009

I'm Gonna Be Fish Food When I Die!

No kidding - I really am! Check out the "Eternal Reef" - this company takes your ashes, mixes it with a special concrete and then sits your "reef ball" in the ocean to make a new reef and create new life in the ocean. This is the coolest thing I've seen in a LONG time! Much to my Mother's horror, I've already sent for my information packet!

I'm posting it on the world wide web so that my family HAS to honor my wishes. I need all of you to hold them accountable if I go to heaven before you!

View video HERE



"Over the years man has done a great deal of damage to the seas and oceans of our world. Many natural reefs have been destroyed and over fished. Establishing new reefs helps to take the pressure off the natural reef systems and help repair the damage that has been done by mankind"

This may seem morbid to some of you, but I'm fine with the whole "death" thing - it's a natural part of life and part of our journey. I believe that when we die it's just the beginning of a whole new wonderful adventure, and personally I can't wait to be in heaven with my Abba. (BTW, it's not that I think I'm so great and that's why I'm going to heaven - it's only because of Jesus and His grace).

Now, don't worry, nothing is wrong with me and I have no intention of "checking out" any time soon - I really believe that I have a lot to do on this earth yet, so I hope I won't have to have my reef ball made for a very long time :0)

Monday, May 11, 2009

Motivational Monday - What would your cardboard sign say?

These are not actors, they are people who live right here in Michiana. The signs they hold reflect something difficult they've been through and what happens on the other side of faith.

They could be your neighbors, your daughter's teacher or one of your business associates. They're every day people whose lives have been "turned over" because of faith and love.

WATCH IT!!



Video from Granger Community Church

What would your cardboard sign say?

Do you have a second side on your sign?

I'd love to hear your response - please comment if you've read this and share it with us!


My sign would read:

* Control Freak

* Living life to please others

* Imprisoned by fear & anger

The Flip Side:

* Learning to let go and trust

* Living life for Jesus only!

* FREEEEEEE and Haaappppyyyyy!!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day - Can You See??

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